Adult only. Private by design.
For clubs and the hosts who do it again
A club that wants to be found already has a website. A host who throws the same private night again already has a list. This is the room for that list.
The short answer
Swinger club software, on this page, means one thing: the private list a club or a repeat host already trusts. Pineapple Play Date runs a key party, a play party, or a speed date for people you invited. It does not publish your night, rate your door, or hand a stranger the address.
Keep the public club night on the club's own site. Staff, a posted policy, a room that exists whether this couple comes or not: that is a different product. Use this when the heat is a short list and a door you control.
Adult only. Private by design. You confirm guests are 18 or older. Only the host checks them in. A club name does not loosen that. When you are ready to host, start from the host home. The hosting help walks through the night.
The night you advertise, and the night you do not
Some clubs publish a date, a dress code, and a way to ask for the door. Search can find those, because they chose to be found. Do not ask this app to pretend it is that front door. A walk-up who searched the avenue is not a member.
The private night is the member list, the house party you run beside the club, the suite you book when the public room is too loud. One private link per couple. The street, the suite, and the map stay hidden until the host releases them. A place name can show earlier. The door code cannot.
Email says Your event, or a public-safe name. The real party name stays in the app. Group chat is one room. Guests cannot message each other privately. Message host stays with the host and co-hosts.
For the host who does it again
A repeat host is the same couple, or the same club desk, with a list that comes back. Save a named rule set when the ceiling stays the same. Dress, phones, which rooms are closed, soft or full, what a no means: one line each, agreed before anyone answers. If you edit the rules, they agree again.
A co-host can use the host tools with you. They cannot delete the party or remove the original host. Check-in still belongs to the host. A door code and a QR pass are for the people on the link. Guests cannot check themselves in. A code in a staff chat is a code that gets forwarded.
A test party lets you walk the night as a guest, including either partner, before a real link goes out. Test parties do not send email, push, or reminders. Rehearse the reveal on an empty room. Your regulars are not the dress rehearsal.
Pick the format before you pick the room
A key party is one shared reveal. The host starts it. Phones wait about ten seconds. The room sees one person, and only if both people said yes. Your own partner is never someone you answer about. That wants a list that can hear itself. A booming public floor is the wrong speaker.
A play party is the night where people move through the rooms you opened. Private yes or no. The host closes the answers, checks people in, and then opens the matches. Checking someone in does not open the names. Each checked-in guest sees one person at a time, only where both people said yes. There is no single pairing for the whole room. An open play party can include singles you actually invited. A couples-only night does not grow a plus-one because the club is busy.
A speed date is short rounds, then yes or no, and people stay dressed. A new speed date starts at five minutes a round. A match needs both couples to say yes. A private no stays private. Soft or full is a ceiling you write in the rules, not a room assignment. Same room or a separate room is where people are. On premise or off premise is the address of play.
You already know who is coming
SDC, Feeld, 3Fun, SLS, and Kasidie help people be found. That is a fair job. This is the other hour: you already know who is coming. A profile on another site is not a door pass. Do not paste the private link into a public group and call the member night closed.
There is no public guest pool here. Distance is not an invite. A maybe does not inherit a link. It is not an open city, and it is not a walk-up at the club door.
If the list is yours, host it. If the list should be on a poster, use the poster. Do not make one tool do the other's job.
FAQ
Is this swinger club software?
For a private invited list, yes. For a public club calendar, no. Pineapple Play Date runs a key party, a play party, or a speed date for people a host invited. Your public night stays on your own site.
Can a club and a house host use the same tools?
Yes. The list, the rules, the check-in, and the reveal work the same. A club does not get a public map because it has a name.
Can more than one person run the night?
A co-host can use the host tools. They cannot delete the party or remove the original host. The host still checks people in.
What if we host the same ceiling every month?
Save a named rule set. Guests agree before they answer. If you edit the rules, they agree again. A test party rehearses the night without sending email.
When do guests see the address?
When the host releases it. Before that they may see a place name, not the street, the suite, or the door code.