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See who has joined and who has finished swiping. On a Key Party, see whether a full pairing exists and re-roll when more than one is possible.
Adult only. Private by design.
Lifestyle parties, reimagined.
Host key parties, open play parties, or swinger speed dates for couples and singles. Everyone swipes in secret. A match exists only when it is mutual.
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A private night, in a minute.
How it works
How to host a lifestyle party
One swinger party app for every night you host. A key party, a play party, or a speed date. You set the room, you approve who walks in, and a yes only counts when it is mutual.
Key party
The signature. One person per card. Reveal opens one Play Partner for the room. Your own partner is never in the deck.
Play party
No pairing and no rounds. Mutual matches open when you check that guest in.
Speed date
Both names, one couple photo. A match needs a yes from both partners in both couples.
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Set up any party
Pick the night before you send a link. A key party, a play party, or a speed date. Name the room: straight, bi-friendly, or open. An open room can include singles you chose. Write the house rules in your own words. Guests agree before they swipe. The street stays hidden until you release it.
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Invite and approve
Each couple gets one private link. Someone who asks in sends an application, and you approve it or you leave it. There is no public guest pool. A maybe does not get a seat.
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Guests swipe in private
Yes or no, in secret. Your own partner never appears in your cards. A match needs a yes in both directions. A no is never shown as a no. Answers can change until you close swiping.
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Check in at the door
Only the host checks people in. Guests show a code or a QR pass. They cannot check themselves in. On a play party, that check-in is when each guest sees their mutual matches.
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The night itself
A play party is open at the door. Every mutual match, and no room-wide reveal. A speed date is timed rounds, then you open the mutual matches. A key party holds one Play Partner until Reveal, one pairing for the whole room at the same moment. Reveal belongs to the key party. The other nights do not wait on it.
The moment
Nobody knows until the reveal.
A private evening, revealed together. A Key Party stays unknown until the host opens the room. A Speed Date waits until the rounds end. A Play Party shows each guest their mutual matches at check-in.
- Everyone swipes privately.
- A one-sided yes stays hidden.
- A Key Party reveals one pairing for the room.
- A Play Party reveals mutuals at check-in. A Speed Date reveals them after the rounds.
For hosts and clubs
Host a swinger party from one dashboard, from the invite to the door.
House rules
Write the rules in your own words. Guests agree before they swipe. If you edit the rules, they agree to the new version.
QR check-in
Each guest has a door code and a QR pass. Only the host checks guests in. Scan it, or type the code.
Message host
A guest can send a private note from Message host. Only the host and co-hosts see that thread.
Test parties
Walk the night before you invite anyone. Open the guest app as any test guest. Test parties do not send email or push.
For guests
You are here because a host or a club invited you. The evening still belongs to you.
Privacy
Swipes are private. You are only paired with someone who also said yes to you. The street address stays hidden until the host releases it.
Discreet notifications
Email and reminders do not use the party name. With no public-safe name, they say Your event.
Partner preview
Partners can compare swipes before the deadline. Either person can turn that off, and sharing stops for both.
Consent first
You confirm you are 18 or older. You agree to the house rules before you swipe. Only the host checks you in at the door.
The key party, plus two more formats
Key Party is the signature. Play Party and Speed Date use the same private room, secret swipes, and mutual-only matches. Straight, bi-friendly, and open rooms are supported. Open parties can include singles.
Key Party
Our signature. Each card is one person, one photo and one name. Round 1 reveals one Play Partner. Mutual yes only.
Play Party
The same individual cards. No room-wide reveal. At check-in, each guest sees their mutual matches. Chat is open before that.
Speed Date
Couples meet, then say yes or no. The card shows both names and one couple photo.
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Pick the night before you send the link
Round 1 holds every phone for about ten seconds, then one Play Partner. A super yes can show on that card, including when you both sent one. Partners can compare swipes until the deadline. Either person can turn sharing off, and it stops for both.
If both partners needed to finish a key party deck and one did not, that couple is not in the reveal. A speed date match between two couples needs all four yeses. A single meeting a couple needs three. Icebreakers post once a day before the party starts, and never on a test party.
Privacy and safety
- Your data is not sold.
- Discreet emails and reminders say Your event, unless the host set a public-safe name.
- The street address stays hidden until the host releases it. Only the host checks guests in.
- The real party name stays in the app after sign-in.
- Hosts control the guest list, the house rules, check-in, and whether the chat stays open.
- This is for swingers and lifestyle couples, 18 and older. The host confirms age offline. Each guest confirms it too.
FAQ
What is a key party app?
Pineapple Play Date is a private app for swingers and lifestyle couples. A host invites the room and picks a Key Party, a Speed Date, or a Play Party. Guests swipe in private. Only a mutual yes can become a match.
Is it private?
Yes. Swipes stay hidden. A no is not shown as a no. Email and reminders do not use the real party name. The street address stays hidden until the host releases it. There is no public browse list.
How does the reveal work?
It follows the party type. A Key Party stays hidden until the host reveals one pairing for the room. A Speed Date shows mutual matches after the timed rounds. A Play Party shows each guest their mutual matches when that guest checks in. A private evening, revealed together.
What is a play party?
A Play Party is swipes without a pairing. Guests say yes or no in private. When someone checks in, they see every mutual match. A one-sided yes stays hidden. There are no rounds and no host re-roll.
How does a speed date work?
Couples rotate through timed rounds and say yes or no in private. A match needs a yes from both partners in both couples. The host reveals those mutual matches when the rounds end. A no is never shown.
Who is it for?
Adults 18 and older. Swingers and lifestyle couples, plus the hosts and clubs who invite them. There is no public guest pool.
Will the party name show up in my email?
No. Email and reminders say Your event, or the public-safe name the host chose. The real name stays in the app.
When do guests see the street address?
When the host releases it. A place name can show before that. Only the host checks guests in at the door. Guests show a code or a QR pass. They cannot check themselves in.
Can a host try it before inviting friends?
Yes. A test party lets the host play as a guest, including either partner. Test parties do not send email, push, or reminders.
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