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A private swinger party in New Haven

New Haven is on the sound. Whether you live near East Rock, Wooster Square, or toward downtown, say which part of town you mean.

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Public parties in New Haven

Upcoming public parties

No parties posted here yet. Host one

Local clubs and events

  • Leisure Time Club

    On premise

    Nearby in Hartford, CT

    Saturday 9pm to 2am. Once a month on Friday, a ladies social.

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    Last checked October 18, 2026Is this your club?

Details come from each club's site and may change.

How the night runs

The host picks a key party, a play party, or a speed date before anyone heads to New Haven. Tweed New Haven Airport is southeast of downtown.

  1. Key party. Before the party, each person says yes or no in private to one photo and one name. You never answer about your own partner. When the host starts the reveal, phones wait about ten seconds. The room sees one person, and only if both of you said yes.

    Key party
  2. Play party. You still say yes or no in private. Matches open when the host checks that guest in. The room does not share one reveal.

    Play party
  3. Speed date. You meet each couple for about five minutes. As a couple you say yes or no. Either partner can answer, and either can change it until the host starts the next round. A match needs both couples to say yes.

    Speed date

Privacy and safety

In New Haven, the street stays with the host until they send it. The invite can name the area. The house number waits.

Everyone confirms they are 18 or older, and the host still checks people in. A private no stays private. Adult only. Private by design.

What to expect

Tweed New Haven Airport is southeast of downtown.

East Rock, Wooster Square, and downtown are different parts of town, and the one-way streets can slow the trip.

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FAQ

Which format should a New Haven host pick?

The one named in the invite. A key party reveals one match for the room. A play party opens matches at check-in. A speed date is short rounds, then yes or no.

Is there a public guest list for New Haven?

No. Searching New Haven does not add anyone. The host sends one private link per couple.

What should the first text say about New Haven?

Tweed New Haven Airport is southeast of downtown. Keep the street out of that text.

When do guests get the address in New Haven?

When the host sends it. A place name can come earlier, so people can judge the trip. The street waits.

Are there upcoming public parties in New Haven?

Hosts post public parties for New Haven on this page. You see the date and the area. The street stays hidden until the host sends it.

How does a private party work in New Haven?

The host invites you. You say yes or no in private, and a match needs both sides. The street stays hidden until the host sends it. Only the host checks you in.