Adult only. Private by design.
A private swinger party in Modesto
Modesto is in the valley. Whether you live near downtown, the north end, or toward the east side, say which part of town you mean.
Upcoming public parties
No parties posted here yet. Host one
How the night runs
Modesto does not change the rules of the format. It does change how long people are in the car, so say which night it is. A house downtown, a place on the north end, a floor east of Highway 99: the rule is the same.
Key party. Before the party, each person says yes or no in private to one photo and one name. You never answer about your own partner. When the host starts the reveal, phones wait about ten seconds. The room sees one person, and only if both of you said yes.
Key partyPlay party. You still say yes or no in private. Matches open when the host checks that guest in. The room does not share one reveal.
Play partySpeed date. You meet each couple for about five minutes. As a couple you say yes or no. Either partner can answer, and either can change it until the host starts the next round. A match needs both couples to say yes.
Speed date
Privacy and safety
Keep the Modesto door code off the chat. Show it at the door, to the host, when you arrive.
Photos and names stay inside the room. If the night is not for you, tell the host and leave. Adult only. Private by design.
What to expect
A house downtown, a place on the north end, a floor east of Highway 99: the rule is the same.
A place name can show earlier, so guests know whether they are on 10th Street or out by the freeway.
FAQ
What should the first text say about Modesto?
A house downtown, a place on the north end, a floor east of Highway 99: the rule is the same. Keep the street out of that text.
When do guests get the address in Modesto?
When the host sends it. A place name can come earlier, so people can judge the trip. The street waits.
Can the party be in a hotel?
Yes. You still choose the list, and you still hold the floor until you want people to come up. A lobby is a public room.
Who lets people in?
Only the host. Guests show a door code or a QR pass. They cannot check themselves in.
Are there upcoming public parties in Modesto?
Hosts post public parties for Modesto on this page. You see the date and the area. The street stays hidden until the host sends it.
How does a private party work in Modesto?
The host invites you. You say yes or no in private, and a match needs both sides. The street stays hidden until the host sends it. Only the host checks you in.