Mutual yesCasey & Oakley
Adult only. Private by design.
Privacy, matching, and the reveal
A key party, a play party, and a speed date use the same private tools. Here is what the app actually does.
How it works
Swipe the room
Before the party. Yes on everyone you want.
Example
Swiped 0 of 4Yes: 0 of 322h 59m
ReeseAboutCardsStatusHostChatProfileTalk first
The room can talk before anyone checks in.
Example
BBlakeSave me a slow song.6:38 PM
Only if you keep that smile.6:39 PM
QQuinnThat look is dangerous.6:40 PM
You make it easy.6:41 PM
QQuinnCome find me after check-in.6:42 PM
Count on it.6:43 PM
Message the groupPartyHostChatProfileCheck in
The host checks you in for the reveal.
Example
Message hostYour check-in code
Show this QR to the host
3WLNFRQJThe host checks you in at the door.
A yes only shows when they said yes too. A one-sided yes stays hidden.
PartyHostChatProfileThe reveal
The room waits, then sees one match.
Example
The reveal
Everyone's here. Reveal in
3PartyHostChatProfileOne match
One person. Only if you both said yes.
Example
Round 1
Your play partner
ReeseMutual yes
One play partner.
PartyHostChatProfile
Swipe the room
Before the party. Yes on everyone you want.
Example
Swiped 0 of 4Yes: 0 of 322h 59m
QuinnAboutCardsStatusHostChatProfileChat first
Flirt with attendees before the night.
Example
BBlakeSave me a slow song.6:38 PM
Only if you keep that smile.6:39 PM
QQuinnThat look is dangerous.6:40 PM
You make it easy.6:41 PM
QQuinnCome find me after check-in.6:42 PM
Count on it.6:43 PM
Message the groupPartyHostChatProfileCheck in
No pairings. No rounds.
Example
Message hostYour check-in code
Show this QR to the host
3WLNFRQJThe host checks you in at the door.
A yes only shows when they said yes too. A one-sided yes stays hidden.
PartyHostChatProfileThe reveal
Your whole list, at once.
Example
The reveal
Everyone's here. Reveal in
3PartyHostChatProfileYour matches
Mutual yes only. Go find them.
Example
Your matches
Mutual yes only
Mutual yesDrew & Morgan
PartyHostChatProfile
Couples coming
One card for each couple. You have not met yet.
Example
Speed date
Couples coming
One card for each couple.
Casey & OakleyNot met yet
CardsPartyHostChatProfileCheck in
The host checks you in. Rounds start when the host starts them.
Example
Message hostYour check-in code
Show this QR to the host
3WLNFRQJThe host checks you in at the door.
A yes only shows when they said yes too. A one-sided yes stays hidden.
CardsPartyHostChatProfileThe round
You meet this couple. Yes or no waits until the round ends.
Example
Speed date
Table 1
5:00
Time left
Round 1
Yes or no opens when the round ends.
Casey & OakleyCardsPartyHostChatProfileYes or no
One answer for your couple. Theirs stays hidden.
Example
Speed date
Round 1 done
Casey & OakleyYes or no
YesNoYou can change this until the host reveals matches. A no stays hidden.
CardsPartyHostChatProfileYour match
Both couples said yes. You see both names and one photo.
Example
It's a match
You both said yes.
Casey & OakleyMutual yes
CardsPartyHostChatProfile
Privacy
There is no public guest pool. A host invites the room. Strangers cannot browse your party, your answers, or your photos.
A private no stays private. Email and reminders say Your event, or a public-safe name the host chose. The real party name stays in the app. The street address stays hidden until the host releases it. Only the host checks guests in at the door. Adult only. Private by design.
How matching works
A match needs both sides to say yes. On a key party or a play party, you answer about one photo and one name. Your own partner is never someone you answer about.
On a speed date you see both names and one couple photo. Yes or no is one answer for the couple. A match needs both couples to say yes.
How the reveal works
On a key party the host starts the reveal. Phones wait about ten seconds, then the room sees one person, and only if both said yes.
A play party has no reveal for the whole room. The host opens your matches after check-in. A one-sided yes stays hidden. A speed date waits until the rounds end, then shows the matches where both couples said yes.
The door
The street address stays with the host until they release it. A place name can show sooner. After the release, guests get the street, a map, and Open in Maps. Do not ask the group chat to leak the street.
Only the host checks guests in. You show a door code or a QR pass. You cannot check yourself in. If you would rather sit out, tell the host. That is a complete way to decline.
Chat
Group chat is one room. It opens when you join, before the door. Guests do not message each other in private. Message host is a private note only the host and co-hosts see.
The host can close the chat and open it again. They can let messages disappear after 24 hours or after 7 days, and they can delete the chat after the party. Icebreaker prompts, when left on, post once a day before the party starts. They do not post on a test party, and they stop once the party has started.
FAQ
Is there a public guest pool?
No. A host invites the room. There is no browse list of guests or parties.
Who sees a no?
Nobody else in the room. A private no stays private. A one-sided yes stays hidden.
Will the party name show up in email?
No. Email and reminders say Your event, or a public-safe name the host chose. The real name stays in the app after sign-in.
When do guests see the street address?
When the host releases it. A place name can show before that. The street, the map, and Open in Maps stay held until the host lets them out.
Who checks guests in at the door?
Only the host. Guests show a door code or a QR pass. They cannot check themselves in. If you would rather sit out, tell the host.
Who can see photos?
The host, and the guests allowed to see that person. A photo is not a public profile.
How does a key party match work?
You answer about one photo and one name. A match needs both people to say yes. The host starts the reveal, and the room sees one person only if both said yes. Your own partner is never someone you answer about.
How does a play party reveal work?
Chat opens when you join. After check-in, the host opens your matches. There is no reveal for the whole room.
How does a speed date match work?
You meet in rounds first, then say yes or no. You see both names and one couple photo. Yes or no is one answer for the couple. Either partner can answer, and either can change it until the next round starts. A match needs both couples to say yes.
Can guests message each other in private?
No. Group chat is one room. Message host is a private note only the host and co-hosts see.
What is the difference between a key party and a play party?
On a key party the host starts one shared reveal, and the room sees one person only if both said yes. On a play party there is no reveal for the whole room. The host opens your matches after check-in.
Do we say yes or no before a speed date?
No. You meet in the rounds first, then say yes or no. Yes or no is one answer for the couple. A match needs both couples to say yes. A single answers for themselves.
Can singles join?
An open room can include singles, including on a speed date. Straight and bi-friendly rooms are couples. Your own partner is never someone you answer about. The host chooses the room shape and says so in the invite.
Can the host rehearse?
Yes. A test party lets the host play as a guest, including either partner. Test parties do not send email, push, or reminders, and they do not post icebreaker prompts.
What can a co-host do?
A co-host can use the same host screens. They cannot delete the party or remove the original host.
What if one partner does not finish?
On a key party, if both partners needed to finish and one did not, that couple is not in the reveal. The host can see who finished. The room cannot.
Can partners see each other's answers?
Yes, until the deadline, if the host left that on. Each partner sees the other's yes, no, or not yet. The host can turn that comparison off for the whole party. Nobody else sees those answers.
When do icebreaker prompts post?
Once a day in the group chat, before the party starts, if the host leaves them on. They do not post after the start, and they do not post on a test party. A blank list uses the built in prompts, which are playful and flirty and still easy to skip. The host can write up to twenty of their own.
Can the host close the chat?
Yes. The host can close it and open it again, let messages disappear after 24 hours or 7 days, and delete the chat after the party.
Can we swap contact details after a speed date?
Only after a match where both sides said yes, and only if you choose to share. You can offer a phone, an email, a handle, or a short note, and you can stop sharing. A match does not hand over anyone's number by itself.