Adult only. Private by design.
A private swinger party in Palm Springs
Palm Springs can hold a private night in a pool house, a mid-century living room, or a hotel off Palm Canyon. Cathedral City, Rancho Mirage, and Palm Desert sit farther down Highway 111, so name the city before anyone packs. The street stays with the host until the list is set.
Upcoming public parties
No parties posted here yet. Host one
Local clubs and events
Sea Mountain Inn
On premise
Desert Hot Springs, CA
Open every day, with a 24-hour lifestyle lounge.
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How the night runs
A drive over the pass from Los Angeles, or down Highway 111 from Palm Desert, is a real trip. The host should name the format, a key party, a play party, or a speed date, before that drive starts.
Key party. Before the party, each person says yes or no in private to one photo and one name. You never answer about your own partner. When the host starts the reveal, phones wait about ten seconds. The room sees one person, and only if both of you said yes.
Key partyPlay party. You still say yes or no in private. Matches open when the host checks that guest in. The room does not share one reveal.
Play partySpeed date. You meet each couple for about five minutes. As a couple you say yes or no. Either partner can answer, and either can change it until the host starts the next round. A match needs both couples to say yes.
Speed date
Privacy and safety
Palm Canyon on a busy weekend does not make the door public. The street and the room number stay with the host until they send them.
Everyone confirms they are 18 or older. The host still checks people in. A private no stays private. Adult only. Private by design.
What to expect
Palm Springs International is on the north side of town. A house in the Movie Colony or the Tennis Club neighborhood is a different arrival than a hotel on Palm Canyon, and a different arrival than Palm Desert.
Say which city in the valley you mean. People coming over the pass for the weekend need that before they land.
FAQ
Is Palm Desert the same night as Palm Springs?
No. Palm Desert, Rancho Mirage, and Cathedral City are farther down Highway 111. Say which city the door is in.
When does the street go out?
When the host sends it. The area can go in the invite so guests can judge the drive down the valley or over the pass.
Can the party be in a hotel?
Yes. A hotel off Palm Canyon still needs a private list, and the room number waits until you want people to come up.
Where do weekend guests fly in?
Palm Springs International is on the north side of town. A lot of people also drive over the pass from Los Angeles.
Are there upcoming public parties in Palm Springs?
Hosts post public parties for Palm Springs on this page. You see the date and the area. The street stays hidden until the host sends it.
How does a private party work in Palm Springs?
The host invites you. You say yes or no in private, and a match needs both sides. The street stays hidden until the host sends it. Only the host checks you in.