Adult only. Private by design.
A private swinger party in San Diego
San Diego already knows how to stay out after the marine layer rolls in. Name the area, North Park, Hillcrest, Little Italy, or downtown.
Upcoming public parties
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Local clubs and events
Thad's
On premise
San Diego, CA
Friday, Saturday, and select Sundays.
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How the night runs
Name the format in the San Diego invite. A key party, a play party, and a speed date ask for different plans.
Key party. Before the party, each person says yes or no in private to one photo and one name. You never answer about your own partner. When the host starts the reveal, phones wait about ten seconds. The room sees one person, and only if both of you said yes.
Key partyPlay party. You still say yes or no in private. Matches open when the host checks that guest in. The room does not share one reveal.
Play partySpeed date. You meet each couple for about five minutes. As a couple you say yes or no. Either partner can answer, and either can change it until the host starts the next round. A match needs both couples to say yes.
Speed date
Privacy and safety
The map for San Diego can wait. Guests get a place name early enough to judge the trip, then the street when the host is ready for them to leave.
Age is confirmed on the link, and again by the host at the door. A no stays on the phone that sent it. Adult only. Private by design.
What to expect
Send the street or the floor when you are ready for them to come over.
Pacific Beach after dark is the same instinct with a louder bar.
FAQ
Is there a public guest list for San Diego?
No. Searching San Diego does not add anyone. The host sends one private link per couple.
What should the first text say about San Diego?
Send the street or the floor when you are ready for them to come over. Keep the street out of that text.
When do guests get the address in San Diego?
When the host sends it. A place name can come earlier, so people can judge the trip. The street waits.
Can the party be in a hotel?
Yes. You still choose the list, and you still hold the floor until you want people to come up. A lobby is a public room.
Are there upcoming public parties in San Diego?
Hosts post public parties for San Diego on this page. You see the date and the area. The street stays hidden until the host sends it.
How does a private party work in San Diego?
The host invites you. You say yes or no in private, and a match needs both sides. The street stays hidden until the host sends it. Only the host checks you in.