An invite from your host.

The night

Private link, then the room.

If a host sent you a link, open that link. If you already have an account, log in. You confirm you are 18 or older. The night stays private.

1. 1

   The host sends one link

   That private address is the application for that party. Open it, answer what the host asked, and wait for their yes.

2. 2

   You confirm you are 18

   The link asks you to confirm you are 18 or older, and to answer what the host asked.

3. 3

   Log in if you already belong

   If you already have an account, log in. The room you were invited to is there.

4. 4

   The host still decides

   Screening stays with the host. A referral, when the host allows one, is another private link. It is not an open list.

The other nights

Back to the homepage or the invite guide.

The link is the application

A host or a club sends a private link, and that address is how you ask to join that room. Open it, confirm you are 18 or older, answer what the host asked, and add the name and photo other people will see.

If you already have an account, log in and then open the link you were sent. The rooms on that account are the ones a host already invited. If you have no link, ask a host you know, or host the night yourself.

A referral, when the host allows one, is another private link. It is not an open list. Screening stays with the host. They can say no. The app will not argue with them, and it will not publish the rejection.

What happens after you are in

You agree to the house rules before you say yes or no. You can read the group chat, and you cannot message other guests in private. Message host reaches the host and co-hosts only. Those answers stay hidden until the host opens them, whether that is one shared reveal, the play party matches, or the end of the speed date rounds.

You will not see the street until the host releases it. A place name may show. At the door you show a code or a QR pass. Only the host checks you in. If you would rather sit out, say so. You do not owe the room an explanation.

Photos are for the host and for guests allowed to see that person. Email about the night says Your event, or a public-safe name. The real party name stays after you sign in. A key party shows one person when the host starts the reveal, and only if both said yes. A play party shows your matches after the host opens them. A speed date shows matches after the rounds, and only when both couples said yes.

The photo has to be you

The photo and the name are what other people will see, and what the host will match to the person at the door. Use a picture of the person who is coming. On a speed date you see both names and one couple photo, and either partner can replace that photo.

You confirm you are 18 or older on the link. The host still confirms age offline. If the host says no, the no stays with them. It is not published.

From the link to the door

Agree to the house rules before you say yes or no. If the host edits them, agree to the new version. Chat is one room. Message host if you need a private word. You will not see the street until the host releases it.

Yes and no stay secret until the host opens them. A key party waits for one shared reveal and one person, only if both said yes. A play party opens your matches after the host checks people in and then opens them. A speed date waits until you have sat the rounds. At the door you show a code or a QR pass. Only the host checks you in. If you would rather sit out, say so.

What the link does

Logging in shows the rooms that invited that account. A second host still has to send their own link. Open the link, put your name and photo on the profile, and agree to the house rules before you say yes or no. The host still decides who walks in.

A referral, when the host allows one, is another private link with the same limits. It is not a public post. Paste it into a group chat on the internet and you have handed the room to people the host did not choose. If you are the one building the list, host the night instead of waiting to be found.

Guests never pay, and there is no ticket. That does not make the guest list public. Everyone confirms they are 18 or older, and the photo stays with the host and with the guests allowed to see it.

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