The swinger party app for a real lifestyle night

The night

Invite, swipe, open the door, then reveal.

Four moves, whatever night you picked. The list is yours. The swipes stay secret. A match exists only when it is mutual.

1. 1

   Invite the room

   Each couple gets one private link. They confirm they are 18 or older, pick their seats, and add a name and a photo. An open room can include singles. There is no public guest pool.

2. 2

   Swipe in private

   Yes or no stays on that phone. Your own partner is never one of your cards. A no is never shown as a no. You can change an answer until the deadline.

3. 3

   The host checks the door

   Guests show a door code or a QR pass. Only the host checks them in. The street stays hidden until the host releases it.

4. 4

   Open only the mutual yes

   A key party reveals one Play Partner. A play party opens every mutual at check-in. A speed date reveals after the tables. One-sided interest stays hidden.

The other nights

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Key parties, in front

Most lifestyle apps are a city of profiles. This one is a night. You are not browsing strangers for a maybe. A host invites the people who should be in the room, and the key party is the format that makes the product different. Individual cards, one photo and one name, then Round 1 opens on one Play Partner. That match is a mutual yes. The room sees it together.

The old picture was a bowl of keys and a public draw. This app keeps the ceremony and drops the humiliation. You say yes or no before the reveal. A no never becomes a speech. If you would rather sit out, you tell the host. You do not check yourself in, and you do not owe the couch an explanation.

You can send one super yes in a party. It is a flourish, not a match by itself. If only you sent it, the card can say so. If you both did, the card can say you both sent a super yes. Later rounds, if you set them, are still one person at a time. You are not pairing people by hand in front of the room.

Play parties, when the room is the point

A play party uses the same private swipes without a Round 1. There is no host pairing and no re-roll. When the host checks a guest in, that guest sees every mutual match. Chat can open when someone joins, before check-in, so the list can tease without pretending the night has started.

Straight rooms swipe the other side. A bi-friendly or open room can show two people from another couple as two cards. Partners are never cards for each other. Say the room shape in the invite. An open room can include singles. A straight room does not sneak them in.

House rules are still yours. One line is one rule. Guests agree before they swipe. Edit the rules and they agree again. The app will not invent your speech about phones, rooms, or what a no means in your house.

Speed dates, after you have actually met

A speed date is the lifestyle party with a clock. The card is the couple: both names and one couple photo. Either partner can replace that photo. You meet at a table, then you say yes or no. Two couples match only when all four say yes. A single meeting a couple needs three yeses. Two singles need one yes each.

The host sets the tables. A round defaults to 7 minutes, the changeover to 1 minute, and the grace period to 15. You can start, pause, resume, add 2 minutes, or skip a couple. Phones share the countdown. An odd count gets a break. A couple is never seated with itself.

After a mutual match, contact share is optional: a phone, an email, a handle, or a note. If they have not shared, you see that they have not shared. That swap belongs to a speed-date match. A linked meet-and-greet before a key party has no match reveal and no contact swap. Do not promise it there.

Private where it counts

The group chat is one room. Guests do not message each other in private. Message host is a note only the host and co-hosts see. The host can close chat, mute someone, or let messages expire after 24 hours or 7 days. Icebreakers are on by default: one prompt a day before the party starts. Write your own, up to twenty lines, or leave the list blank.

Email and reminders say Your event, or a public-safe name you set. The real party name stays in the app. The street address stays held until the host releases it. A place name can show earlier. After the release, guests get the street, the map, and Open in Maps.

Co-hosts can use the dashboard. They cannot delete the party or remove the original host. Partners can compare swipes before the deadline. That sharing starts on, and it takes both partners to stay on. Either person can turn it off, and then it stops for both. A test party lets the host rehearse as any guest and does not send email, push, or reminders.

Free while it is launching

It is free to host and free to join while the app is launching. No card needed. The limit is the list you trust and the door you actually watch. Adult only. Private by design. The host confirms age offline too. The app already asked each guest to confirm they are 18 or older.

If both partners needed to finish swiping and one did not, that couple is not in a key-party reveal. Say that in the rules. On party day you scan passes. You start a key-party reveal yourself. Phones hold for about ten seconds, then each guest sees one Play Partner.

Use it as the hub, not as a single trick. Host the signature key party when you want one name in the room. Host a play party when you want mutuals without a lineup. Host a speed date when you want the clock. Same invites, same hidden no, same mutual yes.

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