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How to promote your party

You already have the room. Send a private invite to people you know, or post an apply link and approve who joins. A key party, a play party, or a speed date for couples.

A dark card with a gold pineapple and the words How to promote your party.

Where hosts post a swinger party

Club boards, Reddit, and private Facebook groups are the usual places. Keep it discreet. The street stays with you.

Club boards such as SLS, SDC, and Kasidie

Hosts often post where their guests already have a profile. Pineapple Play Date is not part of those sites, and this page is not their rulebook.

On a public board, use the apply link. Strangers apply, and you approve them. Keep the private invite for people you already know, and send it by text or DM. One post for the night. Name the format and say it is a private party for couples. Leave the street out. Do not upload photos of real guests. If a moderator asks for a change, make the change.

Reddit

Use a community that already talks about lifestyle parties. Read what that community asks of a host before you post.

Put the city or region, the night, and the format in the title. Post the apply link so people can ask to join. Do not put a private invite link in a public thread. This is a party for couples, not a personal ad. No street. No face photos. One post is enough. Answer in the thread instead of copying the same note into every community you can find.

Private Facebook groups

A private group has an admin. If you are new there, ask before you drop an event.

Post the apply link with a graphic from the apply set. People who want in apply, and you approve them. Send the private invite only by message to someone you already know. Do not add them yourself. Keep the street off the post. Use a picture you would still show if a hotel printed it.

An invite for people you know, or a post where people apply

Send the invite by text or DM. It uses your private invite link. Post the apply version on a public board. Strangers apply, and you approve them. Replace the words in braces with your party.

Key party

Invite, for a text or DM

You're invited to {{partyName}}.

{{date}}

A private key party for couples. One person per card. Your own partner is never in your deck. You say yes or no in private. The host reveals one Play Partner for the whole room.

This link is only for you. Do not post it.

{{inviteLink}}

Apply, short

{{partyName}}
{{date}}

Private key party for couples. One person per card. A yes only counts when it is mutual. The host reveals one Play Partner for the whole room.

Apply to join. The host reviews every application.

Adults only. The street stays off this post.

{{applyLink}}

Apply, long

{{partyName}}
{{date}}

Private key party for couples. Apply to join. The host reviews every application. There is no public guest list.

Each card is one person. Your own partner is never in your deck. You say yes or no in private. A match needs a yes both ways. Nobody sees a no.

On the night, the host checks you in. Then Reveal opens one Play Partner for the room, at the same moment.

House rules arrive once you are approved. The street stays hidden until the host releases it.

Adults 18 and older.

{{applyLink}}

Play party

Invite, for a text or DM

You're invited to {{partyName}}.

{{date}}

A private play party for couples. No pairing and no rounds. You say yes or no in private. Your mutual matches open when the host checks you in.

This link is only for you. Do not post it.

{{inviteLink}}

Apply, short

{{partyName}}
{{date}}

Private play party for couples. No pairing and no rounds. You say yes or no in private. Your mutual matches open when the host checks you in.

Apply to join. The host reviews every application.

Adults only. The street stays off this post.

{{applyLink}}

Apply, long

{{partyName}}
{{date}}

Private play party for couples. Apply to join. The host reviews every application. There is no public guest list.

Each card is one person. You say yes or no in private. A match needs a yes both ways. A one-sided yes stays hidden. There is no room-wide reveal and no timed rounds.

When the host checks you in, you see your mutual matches. That is the night opening.

House rules arrive once you are approved. The street stays hidden until the host releases it.

Adults 18 and older.

{{applyLink}}

Speed date

Invite, for a text or DM

You're invited to {{partyName}}.

{{date}}

A private speed date for couples. Timed rounds. Both names, one couple photo. A match needs a yes from both partners in both couples.

This link is only for you. Do not post it.

{{inviteLink}}

Apply, short

{{partyName}}
{{date}}

Private speed date for couples. Timed rounds. Both names, one couple photo. A match needs a yes from both partners in both couples.

Apply to join. The host reviews every application.

Adults only. The street stays off this post.

{{applyLink}}

Apply, long

{{partyName}}
{{date}}

Private speed date for couples. Apply to join. The host reviews every application. You meet before anyone is paired.

Each card is the couple: both names and one photo. You rotate through timed rounds and say yes or no in private. A match needs a yes from both partners in both couples. A no is never shown as a no.

When the rounds end, the host opens the mutual matches.

House rules arrive once you are approved. The street stays hidden until the host releases it.

Adults 18 and older.

{{applyLink}}

Share graphics for an invite and for an application

Two sets for each party, in square, story, and landscape. Both sets include what the night is and how it works. The dark boxes stay open so the party name, date, and QR or link can be added for that night.

Key party

Invite set

For a text or DM to someone you know. The dark boxes are the party name, the date, and a QR or the private invite link.

Apply set

For a public post. People apply, and you approve them. The dark boxes are the party name, the date, and a QR or the apply link.

Play party

Invite set

For a text or DM to someone you know. The dark boxes are the party name, the date, and a QR or the private invite link.

Apply set

For a public post. People apply, and you approve them. The dark boxes are the party name, the date, and a QR or the apply link.

Speed date

Invite set

For a text or DM to someone you know. The dark boxes are the party name, the date, and a QR or the private invite link.

Apply set

For a public post. People apply, and you approve them. The dark boxes are the party name, the date, and a QR or the apply link.

FAQ

Where do I get the private invite link?

From your host dashboard. It is for people you already know. Send it by text or DM. Do not post it on a public board.

Where do I get the apply link?

From the same party. Post it on a club board, Reddit, or a Facebook group. A stranger applies, and you approve them before they are in. There is no public guest pool.

What are the dark boxes on the graphics?

The party name, the date, and a QR or link. They are left open so the host app can fill in that night. Until then, put those details in the caption.

Should the street go in the post?

No. The street stays hidden until you release it. The post only needs the invite or the apply link.

Are these graphics safe to post on a mainstream site?

Yes. They are type and a pineapple mark on a dark card. No guest photos and no nudity. Still follow the board you are posting on.

Is Pineapple Play Date partnered with SLS, SDC, or Kasidie?

No. Those names are places hosts already post. This guide does not speak for them.

Then open the host app

The post sends people to your link. You still approve who walks in.

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