In the kink world, as in the polyamorous world, specific activities tend to be discussed in advance in detail.

Are all the people in the lifestyle sexy, young, Barbie and Ken? … Sexy?  Yes!  Barbie and Ken, definitely not.  And thank goodness for that (Ken doesn’t even have a penis!).

One of the most important things to remember is that swinging is supposed to be fun! Don't put too much pressure on yourself and just go with the flow.

The most important thing to remember is that everyone at a swingers club is there for the same reason - to have fun!

As Dita Von Tease once said, “You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there's still going to be somebody who hates peaches.”

In a world where alcohol is common, consent is more important than ever. Consent should be gained early, often, and only when a person is capable of clear and sound...